What Makes a High School Guy Attractive from a Teenage Girl's Perspective
As a teenage girl, the landscape of what makes a guy attractive can often feel like a mystery. However, over the years, I've learned some valuable insights that might help others navigate this often confusing world of high school love. Let's delve into the factors that I consider when evaluating a guy's attractiveness.
Physical Appearance
While physical appearance can be crucial, the criteria for what makes a guy attractive are more nuanced than simply looking handsome. Here are a few key points:
Good Hygiene
First and foremost, a guy's hygiene is non-negotiable. Smelling good can go a long way in making someone attractive. It's the little details that matter, such as body odor and breath hygiene.
Style and Aesthetic
Having a good style is important, but it's not just about what brands a guy wears or how he dresses. For example, guys who wear rings, chains, or hats (like New York Yankees or Fear of God) can be quite attractive. The haircut is also a factor in his overall aesthetic. A guy with a "cool" haircut can instantly catch someone's attention. In my experience, a short, glossy haircut can really define a guy's look and make him stand out. However, I personally believe that physical appearance has only a minor role in what makes someone attractive; it's mostly personality that decides if I want to date a person or not.
Veiny Hands and Body Type
Interestingly, I find veiny hands attractive, perhaps a sign of health and strength. However, I can truly fall for anyone regardless of body type. The most important factors to me are his hygiene and the way he carries himself.
Taller than Me
Being taller than me has its benefits. In sports, I can sometimes play catch with him as if I were spinning, which is a definite plus. A guy who has the build that suggests he could pick me up and spin me around in his arms adds to my overall attraction to him, especially since I'm 5'4" myself. Physical strength can be appealing in the right context.
Morals and Personality
What truly matters to me is a guy's personality. Here are some qualities that are important to me:
Respect and Humor
He must be respectful, both to me and to others. A guy who is funny is always a plus. Humor can make the most challenging situations more manageable. The ability to have a good laugh with someone can be quite bonding.
Listening and Understanding
A good listener is someone who genuinely wants to understand me. It's important to be able to talk about my feelings and thoughts without feeling judgment or misunderstanding. Comprehension and empathy are key.
Overprotectiveness and Gentle Touch
While it's nice to know that someone cares about my safety and well-being, it can sometimes become overprotective. A delicate balance between protection and respecting personal space is ideal.
Fighting and Anger Management
Even if a guy knows how to fight, it's not a deciding factor for me in my dating choices. What matters more is how he manages his anger. Controlling emotions and not letting them spiral out of control is important for a healthy relationship.
Cheeky Behavior
Sometimes, a guy needs to be a little bit cheeky to win my heart. Caught him looking at my chest and doing it right? It can be cute and flattering. However, it's crucial to maintain a level of respect and not treat it as a daily habit.
Conclusion
Ultimately, it's the combination of physical traits and personality that makes a high school guy attractive to me. I believe that true compatibility lies in a shared sense of values, respect, and a good sense of humor. While physical attributes can add to the charm, it's the depth of a person that truly matters.